I bought a cookie for two dollars recently at a local tailgate market where farmers and bakers from the region sell their goods. Then I lost the cookie for two weeks but eventually found it in the trunk of my car. It was large, dark golden brown, and looked to be an oatmeal cookie studded with deliciously crisped raisins. I saved it till after lunch. But the first bite was dismaying -- it was indeed an oatmeal cookie, but instead of raisins it had chocolate chips. I guess I'm an oatmeal cookie purist: I think they're best with raisins. I love homemade chocolate chip cookies (Tollhouse cookies) whether warm or cooled, and I love oatmeal cookies, but the two are very different experiences. Next time I spend two dollars on a cookie I'll ask more questions. A perfectly baked oatmeal cookie is slightly browned, even caramelized around the edges. It's both crisp and chewy, with nubbly texture from the oats. The raisins in it become slightly caramelized too and offer a bit of crunchiness. The cookie can have coconut in it; the toasted coconut complements the other ingredients well. A chocolate chip cookie (we're only talking homemade here) is also chewy and a bit crispy but has a different kind of texture, more soft than the oatmeal, and is well-complemented by the creamy chocolate. Chopped nuts may be acceptable here, but nothing else.
Having said that, I must say that my daughter makes wonderful, large cookies, that have EVERYTHING in them, and I like them fine. But they're not pretending to be one or the other. And her variations are great, too, because you're not expecting a particular blend: chocolate cookies with mint chips --mmmmm - cookies with M&Ms AND raisins, good too. But for my dollar, if I'm buying an oatmeal cookie, I want the classic variety.
The picture from the Betty Crocker Cookbook, c1969, shows non-sequential pages, because the book has been so much used that its pages are loose and can be reordered. And the discoloration of the pages attests to their great value and a history of family use. Shown are two cookies that one of my sons used to make: Satellite Cookies and Cream Wafers. If you let your toddlers stand on a chair beside you at the kitchen counter and help cook, they may well learn to love cooking. I'm proud to say that my children could make fried eggs and egg-in-a-hole by the time they were six. I stood nearby, of course, but they did it. I have a friend whose son didn't even pour his own cereal into a bowl until he was 16. But that's another story and involves national cultural differences as well as different family practices.
For another time: Toll House memories